There’s nothing wrong with practising Self Love.
It’s the least selfish thing you can do but if you are going to be selfish this is the most positive way.
If being ‘selfish’ means making sure your needs are met first, making sure you put out or spark your fire first ,I see nothing wrong with it – especially if you’re an empath. Serving yourself first enables you to give to others.
This is a beautiful gift. Self Love is the greatest gift you can offer yourself.
Putting yourself first ensures you limit your need to control others because you aren’t walking around with this idea that they owe you something because you gave out what you should be giving in, nurturing yourself, loving yourself, so as to not feel depleted.
Positive or negative.
You believe or you don’t believe.
You trust or you don’t trust.
You have faith or you don’t have faith.
These are opposing polarities and you do not have the capacity to honour both. The mind is great and vast but so fragile.
Either you believe or you don’t believe.
This is a healing space, a space for open, vulnerable conversation and you must create this space within you and honour your feelings:
And make peace with yourself.
Grant yourself permission at any point to take the time to recalibrate.
Recalibrate: To sync with your present Self.
To have carried out immense Self Work and so you maybe in the habit of reverting to old ways. If you look at it as, here’s new you and old you and your very, very, used to old you, so to some extent it seems logical to do what you have known especially as you do not know all the workings of your newest state or another example, if you moved an object from a room that has been there for years, you will still occasionally go back to where it used to be. This is true of your present state the old and the new must level out or marry, for you to enjoy your new playing field.
Allow yourself the time you need to adjust.
Have patience and be kind to yourself whilst in the recalibration phase. It’s beautiful and scary but your greatness is worth it.
Remember to remind yourself:
You are safe! You are safe! You are safe! You are safe!
Keep pushing through with Self Kindness.
Know that any dark energy you’re experiencing is necessary to progress and it won’t be easy, it’s hard and draining and what was easy will seem like the best option to revert to but there’s truly no going back. In time you’ll learn to love the darkness because it is a path to the light.
Look up at the stars whenever you get the chance. The night sky is beautiful. Your growth no matter how painful, is beautiful.
You are divine!
You are deserving!
You Black Empress are deserving!
You Black King are deserving!
How will you build a life that is a continuous protest, full magik of and powerful.
Build your empire from now.
Love yourself Right Now.
Give yourself a hug.
Self Love is A Practice. Always practice Self Love.
Identify Love. Revere Love. Magnify Love. Ascend Love.
Sending light and love, ALWAYS x
“To Love Thyself Would Be An Awfully Big Adventure.” LD Lore